It's one thing to express concern, but if you push too hard it's going to be perceived as meddling, which only causes resentment and shuts the other parties off to any advice you might render.
Part of being an adult, means making mistakes on your own.
I just feel that Love is Patient and that she didnt want to give it a chance.btown ... In all reality, he may be the better choice than the 30 year old.Half the oldest person's age, 7 is the youngest they can date without the age difference being creepy.Obviously people under 14 can't use this formula, but it if the issue comes up, the age difference is probably too big.Your intentions are genuine, but since they're both adults it's not really your place to judge or get involved in the matter ...just as you probably wouldn't want someone to interfere in your own personal matters. She actually has real feelings for my boy, but she is emotionally unstable.I don't see how it could be a relationship between equals.I don't understand why most of this forum thinks that is perfectly fine.However, she started having feelings with one of my homeboys, who is a great guy and much younger at the age of 21. I feel the same way, she keeps saying that age is nothing but a number which I understand, but she never been in a relationship before and has no dating experience.21 year old guy taught her many things and developed something special in 6 months but one day she just wasnt interested anymore and called that something special with the 21 year old guy a mistake, because she claimed that the 30 year old is her first are your comments on this one? She is pretty mature for her age, but lacks maturity in dating.if it was a situation where my 18 year old daughter had to choose between a respectful, responsible, and well meaning 30 year old, versus a guy her own age who had no job, no responsibility, and was just out to get into her pants, that 30 year old would sure have my stamp of approval!I'm not saying that it's the case here (and I'm not dissing btown's friend, he sounds like an upstanding guy), but numbers don't always tell the full story. because now you've changed the scenario so that she's not a legal adult.