This doesn’t mean that 40 year old men want to MARRY that 20 year old woman, only that they find her the most physically appealing.
To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.
(her father is 56 yrs old)What are your opinions??? I don't have issues with the age difference, per se. They have their lives set, they don't want to leave a young child behind when they die, etc. No, believe me I have thought everything through.... Nor is bragging about how extra mature you are, a sign of maturity. As an older gent myself, it would be nice to have someone younger find me that wonderful, though I can't imagine anyone THAT young being compatible as more than a friend.
He does not have kids, and most likely will not want them. In addition, there is the fact that he is going to begin having health issues and just being older, are you prepared to take care of him and be his nursemaid when you are in your forties and beyond? ") tend to be trying to convince other people to believe they are mature, just like a 5 year old saying "but moooom, Imma big boy now, stop treating me like a baby! Sorry, but petulant and obviously vindictive, spiteful comebacks when someone politely explains a situation which bears directly on your own, and which you yourself posted here for comment, are not the sort of thing that a person "wise beyond their years" does. You asked for opinions on here and when you read something you dont like,you immediately go into attack mode.
Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.
Once upon a time, he was trying to illustrate why free dating sites were “better” than paid dating sites, but it was clear that he was advocating for Ok Cupid.
Both have no kids, never were married, have EVERYTHING in common.
Chances are you are not going to start looking significantly older till you hit your mid 30's. I've dealt with children your age before, and know fully well where it's coming from.
I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act.
Because he may be a great communicator, mature for his age, and relationship minded, but he’s also, y’know, a BABY. Go in with your eyes open and appreciate the experience for what it is – a dalliance with the youthful exuberance of your past. “What do guys in their twenties really expect and/or want when contacting an older woman? That’s what I thought when I was a schmucky 20 something, and so did my friends.
I would proceed with caution, if you’re looking for something more than a fling with a young stud.
I get contacted by a fair number of guys in their 20’s and most I don’t respond to because I just feel it won’t go anywhere. But I still feel that maybe it’s a mistake…what do I really have in common with this guy? However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. I’m here to observe society and report back to you how things USUALLY work out. And when all my friends would make fun of me and say, “Why would you date an older woman when you could date a younger woman? As far as I’m concerned, every woman is better at 28 than at 23, better at 33 than at 28, and so on. You’re at the home buying, 401K saving, family planning phase of life – for MOST 46-year-olds.
Recently, however, I was contacted by a guy in his mid-twenties and I was impressed by his profile…he’s mature, intelligent, articulate and attractive. And for every Demi and Ashton (Celebrities, They’re Just Like Us! ”, I’d say, “Why would you date a younger woman when you can date an older woman? Now, there is a flaw in this system – the biological clock – which is much worse at 38 than at 23. Hey, if you still have the juice to hang with kids, go crazy. Put another way, there’s a very good reason that you don’t see many 25 year old men with 45 year old women.