Our minds tell us not to approach people we don’t know as it is outside of our comfort zones. But before we dive in, a quick HEADS-UP – if you’ve recently been through a breakup get the Breakup Survival Guide for Men immediately.You have to realize that males are logical creatures (females are emotional), and that being the case, our mind will give us logical reasons not to approach to keep us safe, to keep us comfortable, and will put our comfort above our happiness. It’s not about being “strong” or “tough” – there are certain psychological and chemical processes that go on in a breakup.A little while ago, I asked Derek Cajun, Love Systems CEO and top instructor, to put Love Systems to the test online.Cajun was the natural choice for this, since he’s one of the most experienced Love Systems instructors.It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. First, the fact that such a dating situation is still somewhat taboo makes is all the more enticing and exciting.
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It may be hard to admit it, but, often, we are our own worst enemies when it comes to dating. When I found myself single after 32 years of marriage, I vacillated between delight and despondency.
After three years on my own, I tentatively approached online dating, and numerous coffee date debacles taught me a lot.