These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.But if you’re 44 years old hitting up 21 year-old women, I’m sorry, but you’re going to have to step it up a little.Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.Definitions As usual, we need to get our definitions straight.
If you start talking about how hot her boobs are or tell her how you “can’t wait to get her back to your place”, she’s going to vanish fast, even if she’s a Type 2.Mistake Number 3: Not Paying Attention To Personal Appearance I’ve already addressed this point before, including in one of the links above, so I’m just going to summarize it here.Some older guys think they can wing it with their personal appearance and look just like a normal, every day guy just like they did back when they were 25.The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones.You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons).Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.