I want him to think that I’m too busy out there having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he’s interested in sharing any time with me!
Let him do the pursuing, and he’ll be much more interested in you. Practice Mirroring Strategies Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out.
So, I always tried to laugh a lot and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a guy.
If I want a guy to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh and all his jokes! Have a Great Attitude In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions.
The best way to show you value humor is to laugh at his jokes, but I always try to crack a few jokes myself, too.
Guys are drawn to girls with a funny side, and there’s nothing that draws two people closer than sharing a laugh.
That means, don’t say yes if he asks you out last minute. I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends every thing about a new guy in my life wasn’t the best idea.So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes.Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they’re tried and true because they actually work! Be Different Trying to be unique and different is a way I’ve always tried to interest guys.For instance, if your guy rests his elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. It creates a connection between me and the guy that he just can’t explain. So, if I’m trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his eyes while we’re talking. Don’t Appear Desperate Guys aren’t attracted to desperate, clingy girls who seem like they can’t get anyone else.Now, don’t look too long, or you’ll appear to be a stalker… Remember the scenes in Twilight where all the sexual tension developed between Edward and Bella just based on eye contact? Guys are attracted to busy, happy, popular girls who seem like they’ve got it all under control and who have the world at their feet.So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time. Let Him Call You When I’m trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get.I don’t call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother.For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I’m laughing at a joke, or I’ll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I’ll touch his hand while I’m explaining something. Bring Him a Treat The old saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach isn’t just an old saying for no reason- it’s totally true!I always bake a little treat for a guy when I’m trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. Give Him Freedom When a guy’s trying to determine if you’re girlfriend material, he will test you a little bit.When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more.In my experience, if any guy every got the impression that I’d try to tie him down, he’d be gone lightening fast.