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Then again, on the flip side, maybe he is already there, and in love with you, and just afraid to admit it.
You can google just about anything and find an answer. When Jordan and Cady were married, I did not have the chance to know Cady as well as I knew Jordan.
However, “pursuing your best friend’s widow” is a search that probably will not yield many answers. I knew that she seemed like the woman for him from day one, and I was so thankful that such a strong and godly woman was marrying one of my closest friends.
So I say go out with him, see where things go, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to figure it all out on the first date.
You’ll know in your gut after a few dates whether there’s something worth exploring with Max or if this isn’t any more than a friendly, mutual attraction.