Do yourself another favor, put yourself in the shoes of a woman and ask yourself, would you sleep with a bunch of dudes that had shitty photos, sending winks, or sending boring emails that say "you're hot, want to come over and fuck" and "check out my penis?" If you can elevate your game above the cavemen that write this garbage, then you too can get laid.Right now I took a break to explore other sex dating sites.As mentioned before, I started off as a free standard member, however standard membership has a lot of limitations on what you can do.AFF is part of Friend Finder Networks and is located in Sunnyvale, California, USA.As far as the website itself, AFF is a massive website. I'm not saying it's easy to hookup with people in Boston if you live in Los Angeles, but at least the potential is there. Naturally there's a lot of people wanting to hook up, but there's also a very large swinger community, a partnership with a live sex cam site, movies on demand, member posted videos, a large chat community, as well as erotic stories and forums where people their erotic fantasies with other members.Allow me to save you a month of defeat and give some advice.
Needless to say it made a great story to tell at the bar.It was the first time a girl replied on the first email, saying she wanted to meet up for sex. For the next few hours, I kept wondering if there would be some issue with her, maybe she claimed to be a woman and was a man, maybe she was twice as old as she claimed, maybe she was a "working professional" and will hit me with a fat bill when I see her.It seemed way out of the ordinary, we haven't even met for coffee yet, but I liked her photos and needed some stress relief so why not, right? I never had a girl reply that fast and never had a girl want to meet right away for sex. Fast foward, 3 hours later, I drove to motel, met her, and the sex was almost bitter sweet.When I paid for a gold membership, I felt excited again because I thought I was going to get laid that evening, only to be disappointed again.The truth is, it's not that simple, and I learned that the hard way.I go into detail about the differences between the two memberships in the next section "Free Standard Member vs.Paid Gold Membership" but let's just say things did not actually heat up until I paid for a gold membership.Just like any other sex dating site, you do have to spend a little time at creating a good profile and writing emails, but AFF at least puts all the people that want to "play" together at least.In addition to the sex dating aspect, their website is chalked full of site features and other adult entertainment.Currently my profile is inactive, and I cancelled my membership.The process was easy enough, for your convenience I also listed all of their billing and customer service information.