Id like to think i would consider them as the whole balance of thier characteristics not just thier specific genitalia, but being a hetrosexual person if there are not enough "female" features to trigger subconcious attraction then i doubt it could work.There has to be that basic chemistry in my opinion for any relationship.When the days are dark and nothing makes you hot remember about x Hamster's Hermaphrodite Porn!
I know you can adopt/surragecy/fostering these days but not everyone feels able to do that.
Psychologically it would be similar with the exception of course that the intersex child would find out about the childhood ops and may have resentment as a result.
These days as adults people in our society regularly choose to identify with another sex and some go as far as having the ops to do it.
As far as i know she remained on her own and became a farmer , dont know about now lost touch in the 70s .depends what we define someones sex by really.
If you go by genetics then you are either female or male.