After few months of just keeping in touch on facebook while I continued my solo backpacking, Jon and I decided to be officially together, and we’re now together for almost two years!I’m not lucky cuz I’m with a white man – we are BOTH lucky to have each other cuz we deserve the best! Check out our DIY Travel Guides here and for cheap hostels around the world, check the list here.) This is also for all the Filipinas who are being judged for dating a Foreigner instead of our Filipino men!And most importantly: Dating a girl who you know is dating other guys is a fertile breeding ground for insecure thoughts to pop into your head that just don’t exist if you’re in an exclusive relationship: “Am I as good as him? When you confront them, you’ll develop your inner confidence and strength to a point where you simply don’t care any about other guys anymore, rather than spending your life running from your insecurities.So, if you’re seeing a girl and worried that she’s going to date other guys unless you put a ring on it, stop worrying. Encourage her to see other guys and explore all the delights the world has to offer.Also, if you travel in mostly Asian countries, having a Filipino passport has way more advantage than his, he has to pay more than me!
She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. Despite what my original misgivings, it turned out to be a smart decision.
As neediness is one of the biggest relationships killers, this is a HUGE plus.
The fastest way to kill any potential relationship is to take all the tension out of it.
By doing this, you’re not only giving your relationship a chance to grow to its full potential, but you’re also forcing you to confront and overcome your insecurities and move towards your true potential.
I’m not suggesting you allow your wife to date your best friend but in the world of casual playing, it can be very beneficial.