BTW if the genders were reversed, you can bet people would be calling her a cougar and joking about her robbing the cradle.
There would be of course people who would disapprove but nobody would call her a pervert. It's only men who take advantage of younger women.
It depends on whether or not the two of you can meet somewhere in the middle and make something wonderful of your time together while you can. There was the other pros of going out for nice dinners (she made around -0k) and doing stuff and having conversations about things that I'd never really do with a girl of my age.
Eventually I ended it before it became too serious, because at 23 I wasn't ready for marriage or kids and I guess at 33 her clock was ticking, although she never mentioned it. One from the 30 yr old just turned 1 this weekend and the other from one of the twins is about to turn 2. Maturity and life experience is def something that hits us both.
Pros: No bullshit/"games" that I had to put up with when trying to date girls my age or younger. Whatever was on her mind she would talk about and she would call me out on my faults. She knew exactly what she wanted, how to get it, and had her years of experience on me.
She had many more years of life experience and wisdom to draw on, and we had great conversations. She wanted it more than girls my age did and it was seriously the best sex I've ever had.
I have just started a relationship with someone a little older than me, only 5 years but the main thing I noticed is how broody she is!! We joke, I mention stuff like "when I was in HS, you know, yesterday". I'm from Brasil, the culture is different anyways, but there are still times where my generation would do something one way that shocks her to no end.
Also I hate how people don't even know what pedophile means.
They love each other so much though, and since he's been having health problems, and their children are grown and out of the house, my MIL has started drinking more than is healthy, and smoking after 20 years as a non-smoker.
The last time I was at their house, I asked my MIL why she was doing this, and with tears in her eyes she said, "I'm just trying to level the playing field.
His friends teased me a lot early on about being just a baby.
Now that we're older, I notice that his taste in music is really My Inlaws are going through this right now. My FIL only has one working lung, and a laundry list of other health problems, not to mention he's just friggin tired.