Arguments and disagreements are necessary to forming a strong, healthy relationship.
When you meet someone of true integrity, it is not possible for any of these four qualities to live in your relationship. Love and marriage are not meant to be forever blissful or idyllic. Not someone who will “fix it.” That’s too big a burden for anyone to bear. An important quality I would look for is that he listens and is emotionally responsive to her needs.
We realized that we were not really talking and sharing.
We were avoiding the most fundamental, meaningful discussions in order to avoid fighting.
If you can’t argue well, you will not be able to resolve problems that arise around his leaving his clothes on the floor or her spending too much money, or any other “trivial” spat.
Many couples say how proud they are they never argue.