Essentially, you’re saying, “I’m not a loser, player, commitmentphobe or dating addict, but any man who does the same thing that I’m doing must be.”So to set the record straight: going on multiple dating sites means that you’re looking to expand your options.
There is another myth in your question, Barb—the idea that someone who signed up on Match in January ‘06 and is still on in January ‘08 has been on for two consecutive years.
However, if you were watching my profile on JDate, you’d have assumed that I was online from 1998-2006 without any success. Sometimes, when you leave, you don’t take your profile down—which leads you to be labeled an online dating addict by a woman who is on every single site herself. But you ARE onto something, Barb, which is that online dating CAN be addicting.
In fact, in my dating heyday, I didn’t just try JDate. Just like alcohol can be used recreationally or abusively, so can
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I am dating a man who is - for lack of a better term - addicted to his internet dating sites.