What was once taking months to years, is now taking weeks to months and with the direction seems to be going in, days to weeks.Reversal of gender roles is also playing a part in these shifts.By Collin Bryant | Sports Writer The art of dating, like many other pastimes people take part in, has changed significantly over time, divulging into a new school of dating. There are things to be said about both eras having their positives and their drawbacks.For instance, both parties in the new school era seem to be more OK with the grey area that is neither dating or not dating.We were the same faith so I said to myself, what the heck and liked him back. After joining Oasis and not having much luck I was about to give up when I got an email with suggested matches. Without Oasis I certainly wouldn’t have met the love of my life who makes me the person I am today and supports me through not only the good but the bad too. I have been quite an active user on Oasis for the past few years. Until one day a guy with nickname Jiwa Muda liked me.
The new age has ushered in people chasing followers and collecting the most attention.However, is there a problem with people spending more time competing to see who can maintain the most control by playing games to see who can chase who?Sentiments of “going steady,” have been replaced with Tinder and Bumble dates.Dating apps such as Bumble and Tinder have attempted to streamline the process only to dilute overarching purposes of getting out into the dating pool.A friend of mine, for example, said he doesn’t use Tinder for its original purposes.I have been quite an active user on Oasis for the past few years. Until one day a guy with nickname Jiwa Muda liked me.We were the same faith so I said to myself, what the heck and liked him back.One day he sent me a message and gave me his mobile number. He flew from Yogjakarta and reached Malaysia on March 1st. Since then we have been communicating via Whats App. It has also brought in people trying to adhere to the status quo.Seeing different people on social media with their visually successful relationships illicit certain feelings in people that make them think they want a relationship passionately.