It also continues the playful fun tone I’ve set from the beginning and eases off some of the pressure. Remember you want her to be in an emotional state, not a logical one.In a logical one she may be thinking why should I go out with you? Get her number Once the date is set up I’ll then ask for the number, so we can call each other when we meet up and also take it to Whatsapp.This sets up the fun, light and playful conversation I want to have with her.Or if she looks fun, or looks like she parties I might open with “Oh boy here comes trouble…” and she’ll either own it and say something like too much trouble, or deny it. If I’m truly stuck I’ll just make oberservational statements based off her pictures and bio, but I’ll phrase them as assumptions and not questions.But just a little taste, otherwise what more is there to discover about you on the date?
They may even ask me what I’m going to knit for them, and we go back and forth.How quickly does the phone ring again after each call?I like suzy's idea of a saucy stories card index!She regards what she does as performing a public service Put some ads in the local newsagent and charge accordingly for ironing. They can drop it off to you and pick it up later in the day. There was an ad in our local paper for a cleaner this week - £7.50 an hour (only 2 hours a week though).Do you get paid for a set number of hours whether you're talking or not, fa?Conversation From experience this is the best way to be, as you don’t want to ask too many of those logical job interview type questions like “what do you do? Everyone woman I’ve dated on Tinder that I asked for feedback from said they loved this about the conversations we had, and it was a refreshing alternative to the slew of guys being boring, too serious or trying to get sexual with them.Keep this playful, cheeky, witty tone, and don’t get too deep or sexual.At this point, don’t expect any amazig answers, in fact expect to be doing 90% of the talking at this point and keep the conversation moving.This is normal, until she starts to invest more and more as conversation develops. Instead you want to put her in a more of a fun emotional state, by flirting teasing, and having light conversation.Sending her some links to cool pics of you helps especially if you can tell her the stories behind them, which show you have value.These will help her get a broader sense of what you are like as a person.