Understand that the 1 Life Path is enrolled in the “School of Hard Knocks.” They experience many obstacles in their lives that are meant to strengthen their sense of their uniqueness – not to grind them to a pulp. They can also have issues with self-defeating tendencies and addictions. The 2 Life Path thrives when serving the needs of a group. They’re all about love and so being in a loving relationship is very important to them.
Yet these folks aren’t living a particularly linear existence. They’re often “in their head” and find themselves in codependent relationships. You’re the one who makes things happen behind the scenes. They’re super-emotionally sensitive, so be aware that they get their feelings hurt easily and they are also very much attuned to the emotions of others, often to the point of feeling drained emotionally.
Lifepath Numbers 4 and 4 can have either an excellent or stressful relationship — there’s not much in the middle.
4s enjoy some predictability and routine in their lives.
Since confidence is an ongoing issue for the 1, they need a relationship with someone who’s in tune with their need for reasonable praise and support of their need for creative expression. On the downside, this person can lean toward narcissism and can develop a sense of dealing with people and situations with criticism and judgment. Your primary purpose is to develop your sense of love, harmony, diplomacy, and balance in whatever you do.They can have a tendency to “smother” their partner. The key to their over-all personal evolution: Defining, setting, and acting upon healthy emotional boundaries.If working with the destructive aspects of their Life Path mission, they can be antagonistic and aggressive/assertive. If you’re on a 3 Life Path, you’re The Communicator.They can develop little emotional crushes that don’t mean anything – so just understand that it’s a fantasy of the mind and not a threat to your actual relationship together. Sometimes the 3 can hide from their emotions and be cut-off from that aspect of themselves.In this case, they will present as coldly analytical.Together, 4s should appreciate their mutual strengths: 4s are reliable and dependable, true to their word.But they run the risk of creating a lifestyle that is too rigid, one that can drive away family and friends.Yet they can be fiercely loyal to a partner later in life, as long as they can continue to have their independence and freedom.The 5 can be scattered and also sway between total dependence .That means that each of us will struggle with the very thing we’ve come here to do. Your primary purpose is to develop your sense of creativity and confidence in whatever you do.You’re here to learn how to individuate yourself from others (primarily family early on), develop your sense of independence, and then get on the road to attainment/achievement. They need to be allowed plenty of processing/thinking time – just in general, yet also for dealing with relationship matters.