If I tell a joke to a girl and she laughs, does that mean I’ve messed with her emotional chastity by inadvertently flirting?Oh no, he sneezed and I said ‘God bless you’ – I hope he doesn’t think I have a crush on him! Be friends with your friends and pursue the women you want to date (one at a time, of course).
The Situation: It starts in kindergarten, with playground shoves and pulling hair (that means he likes you? So how on earth are we actually supposed to get it together?
The Solution: Chastity is not primarily a no to sex, but a yes to God’s plan for sex and our sexuality.
His will is that sex would be about life and love in the commitment of marriage – not that we would use another person for temporary pleasure.
She Says: I’ve had so many girlfriends burned by this one…
A guy will say that he’s prayerfully discerned out the relationship because he needs more time to pursue Christ on his own – and then BAM! If you’re really feeling called like it’s time to be single, be single.