For communities that circumcise men, those beliefs are drummed into their minds to the extent that they look at their mothers as lesser human beings.
And so the African man is a conqueror of his family.
Because he’s been in the workforce for oh, about four years. But still, I’m a big proponent of life experience and wisdom. So even if this young man’s interest in you is completely pure, even if he wants to have a real relationship with you, you guys are most likely doomed. But presuming he does, if I were you, Carla, I’d probably have some fun.
I am in my mid-forties and I have been online dating off and on for about 2½ years and dating in general for 4 years.
I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act.
Marrying an older wife challenges this social order.
It challenges the power and authority that the man has in the marriage.