As is the case with most African countries, the majority of Kenyans meet their romantic partners via the traditional methods of friends of the family, mutual friends, organizations, work, or school, etc; however, the Kenyan dating landscape is changing, and online dating is becoming increasingly more mainstream.Having lived and worked in Kenya, I can tell you that your best success with online dating in the country will be in the big cities such as Nairobi and Mombasa where there is a larger pool of people from which to choose. Having traveled in and out of the country on numerous occasions during my days living in Mauritius (a small island country east of Madagascar, in the middle of the Indian Ocean), I grew an appreciation for the silky smooth brown skin tones of the people that live in this country.As I advised in my article on online dating in South Africa, should you decide to sign up for the online dating sites I recommend below, be sure to read member profiles carefully as you might come across a lot of fake profiles. A woman who has only one picture posted, is wearing a tight bikini and making an overly suggestive pose are usually clear signals to steer clear. Afro Introductions is an African dating site under the Cupid Media Network umbrella.Without further ado, here is the quick list of the top three dating sites in Kenya. Started in 2002, Afro Introductions is now 2 million members strong, and growing.Nearby is the bar Love Joule, called the first “sex and love bar dedicated to women.” It is said to be a safe space for women to openly discuss masturbation and their sexual lives.According to proprietor Megumi Nakagawa, “Once they take a seat, customers are able to experience a pleasant place in which they can openly discuss masturbation.
If we can recreate all of those, I think it will be a really powerful device.In the Shibuya district of Tokyo is The Vibe Bar Wild One, which has quite a philosophy: “See, touch, and feel.” For 3,000 yen, women and couples can sample some of the over 300 domestic and imported vibrators displayed on the wall behind the bar for up to 90 minutes while they sip their drinks.With close access to the Shibuya metro station, the bar even features English-speaking staff to cater to curious tourists.These so-called “dutch wives” are made from the highest-quality silicone material with extremely lifelike eyes and skin. According to Orient Industry spokesman Osami Seto, “The two areas we identified as really needing improvement were the skin and the eyes.We feel we have finally got something that is arguably not distinguishable from the real thing.In 2010, an orgy for 400 Japanese businessmen reportedly took place in the city of Zhuhai, which led to arrests and massive public outcry.The Foreign Ministry in Beijing expressed indignation at the incident, which suspiciously happened on the anniversary of Japan’s invasion of northeastern China in 1931.The most famous contestant on the program was a bar owner named Takuya, an average guy with “the charisma of a leading lady.” His startling performance gained fans in Japan, Taiwan, and Hong Kong. Analysts believe Japanese game shows like ran the headline “Wealthy Chinese paramours get to do anything they want in Japanese sex shops.” The article detailed the exploitation and denigration of Japanese sex workers by Chinese sex tourists.The show featured this memorable exchange between the confident Takuya and his straight male porn star opponent: TAKUYA: “I will definitely make you come! Wealthy businessmen from China apparently eat sushi off the naked bodies of Japanese women, bring in laptops and ask them to reenact favorite porn scenes, have absolutely no manners, and take photographs despite “No Camera” signs. Hong Kong’s wrote, “Reports about the supposed sexual habits of Chinese tourists and the problems they are causing in Japan’s red-light districts have been dismissed as simply another way for the tabloids to belittle the Chinese.” However, the sex industry has been exploited in both countries as a way to stir up nationalist resentment.However, the sex industry is the second largest industry in the country.The combination of traditional attitudes with a post industrial technological complex has given rise to some strange phenomena in the country’s sexual culture.