You are a valuable, intelligent individual who is deserving of a strong, loving commitment.
You won’t have that unless you bring your partner down to earth where he belongs.
It’s also unfair to him, since he has to live up to your unrealistic expectations.
In addition, why give him free reign to treat you as he wants without any regard to what really makes the relationship work. The situation requires you to reassess your innate value.
They have mutual respect and connect with one another, emotionally and physically. Shaky ground is created, at least in terms of the health of the relationship.
Maybe this is what was modeled to her in her family of origin.
Or, maybe she fears this is the only way to ‘keep’ him.
There are lots of reasons women idealize their man.
Allow him to be himself, with flaws, vulnerabilities and weaknesses.“This is really awful advice by both the man and the woman.Want to know the most important difference between a bad boy and a nice guy? A bad boy either sees himself as the prize or doesn’t believe women are a prize.“Why are you fighting for a woman’s affection? They aren’t magical angelic creatures made from God’s tears. Visualize this, and the point becomes even more clear: A woman’s idealization of her man means she remains beneath him.Love is not turning a blind eye it is having both eyes wide open.Infatuation is putting someone on a pedestal and seeing who you want to see not who/how they actually are.However, there can be some negative consequences to the pedestal phenomenon.Sometimes when we over-appreciate someone we become blind to aspects of our interactions with them that are harmful or negligent of our own needs.There are many reasons why some men may seek the pedestal.They may hold views that they are superior, and that the woman belongs beneath him.