But as I stated earlier, he made it clear he did not want to reciprocate.
After we were finished, he indicated that he might hit me up again.
") and contemptuous with intimate partners ("Do you have to stand there, you fucking dumbass?
") don't value their partners and don't deserve intimacy.
But when I arrived, he said he was only interested in me giving him a massage and then a handjob.
Apparently, he's a straight guy who wanted to experiment with men in a very limited way. But after he came, I was really aching for release myself.
I recently posted an online ad for a jack-off buddy.I got a response from a man who turned out to be a gorgeous, young Sri Lankan dude with a huge, beautiful uncut cock.Anyway, I was really looking forward to him jacking me off and vice versa.Do you think I should continue with the massage and "happy ending" in hopes he will someday feel comfortable enough to reciprocate?Or should I just go ahead and find myself another jack-off buddy? I recently spent a wonderful weekend with a young woman from out of town who identifies as queer and poly.This gives me some sexual variety and keeps her from feeling threatened by my becoming emotionally involved with a third party.She is very mono and has no interest in going outside the marriage for sex.But since you asked: A nonmonogamous person has sex with their partner and others; a poly person has or is open to having committed and concurrent romantic relationships.For one example: An ethically nonmonogamous woman fucks the boyfriend/husband she loves and other guys she doesn't; a poly woman has two (or more) guys she both loves and fucks.I am in a happy monogamish marriage, and I enjoy a very good, vanilla-but-bordering-on-tantric sex life with my wife.Early on, when we discussed how open our marriage should be, we decided it would be all right for me to see escorts several times a year.