virgins) will have access to your profile, though the authenticity of users could be a mystery – the Colins’ sternly worded “V’s only! The site also features a small online store where users can purchase physical V-cards as “proof” of their purity.
The “card-carrying virgin” idea may be a novelty, but You And Me Are Pure cites it will stick true to its “pure until marriage” ethos.
I don’t know whether it was hearing my mom explain the basics of oral sex, the embarrassment of having not previously known about this particular genre or the fact that she caught two of my friends actually engaging in this in my basement, but let’s just say I never fully recovered from that centuries-long five-minute conversation.
Something else that has kept my pants on all these years: Despite my Miss Independent, one-of-the-guys, often cynical/always logical demeanor, I am a hopeless romantic.
As for The Chat, I’ve found that over time it’s become more of a Dude Decoder than Relationship Wrecker.
Let me explain: Every guy reacts differently to the No Sex bomb.
Another had such low self-esteem he wouldn’t make a move until just before he passed out.There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. So: There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. I’m a 26-year-old woman with a college degree, a good job, an adorable duplex and no debt. Wait until the third date and you risk being considered a tease. Perhaps, but at this point you’re both still fretting over whether or not to eat another piece of bread; delving into sexual histories (or lack thereof) seems a bit extreme. I should be better at sharing this bit of information by now.What’s more, I’m an obnoxiously picky person who avoids letting go of control, being vulnerable and making mistakes at all costs — a by-the-book Type-A perfectionist.The longer I go without sex, the more build-up there is: the more anxiety and curiosity, fear and desire, anticipation and uncertainty.The Chat was never really an issue for me until three years ago.I wasn’t like many teens, who consider sex a rite of passage.I have a solid group of friends, a supportive family and a clear awareness of who I am and who I want to be. Yet the moment I have to tell the guy I’m dating that sex is not an option, I become a squirmy, awkward, fidgety girl who can’t make eye contact or put together a complete sentence.Think junior high dance, only without a bathroom to hide in.A new site to the online dating landscape is advertising its matching services exclusively for virgins.You And Me Are Pure.com, an aspiring of the virtual, virginal Internet dating scene, boasts itself as place for virgins to connect.