Rather than looking for reasons not to reach out to people, try to find things that do attract you to them.
Contact anyone you might share common interests with and see where it goes.
If you think you’d never date an avid sports fan, give it a shot.
It can be very easy to believe you’ve found “the one” based simply on a profile, but avoid the urge to get your hopes up until you meet in person. Building up high expectations beforehand may just be setting yourself up for failure.
Be patient and cautious and take things one step at a time.
If you message someone you think is a perfect match for you, do not obsess if you don’t receive an email in return.
Everyone is different and if someone’s just not into you, simply move on to greener pastures.